The key to Love is in YOU – let’s open the flow!
It’s like you’re on a rollercoaster. Up and down, in and out. You’re stuck on the wash cycle and you just keep meeting the same guy in a different body (or literally the same guy).
Over and over, you run into the same painfully frustrating push & pull dynamics, perpetually feeling like you’re either too much or not enough, and repeatedly finding yourself in the same disappointing relationship.
It’s exhausting, and you’re so lonely, but you don’t know what else to do. It feels like your only options are misery in partnership or misery in solitude, but either way, you’re trying to convince yourself that maybe it’s good enough – even though your needs are not getting met.
I know that in your heart of hearts you dream of being seen and accepted as you are, being loved and appreciated for your unique magic, being valued as an equal in your worth, and being supported and safely held in a balanced and committed partnership.
So what gives??
Why (you wonder) does it seem like every guy you meet is either not feeling you, not feeling themselves, or not willing to do their own work?
Right??
You’ve tried to adjust to them; you’ve tried self-help books and therapy; you thought you fixed your picker (but apparently not); you might have even tried giving up on love altogether – and yet… you’re still unsatisfied.
If that’s the case, I’m willing to bet that you haven’t tried loving yourself.
And I don’t just mean liking yourself or treating yourself – I mean loving yourself the way you want to be loved...
❧ Really seeing and FULLY accepting yourself as you are.
❧ Truly appreciating your own unique magic.
❧ KNOWING your worth, all the way down to your bones.
❧ Supporting yourself through loving validation – no self-abuse, neglect, or shame.
❧ Showing up for yourself and prioritizing your wellbeing – consistently.
This is how you become the partner in the relationship of your dreams.
Relationships Are Powerful Mirrors
When we’re not finding the love we seek in our relationships, it’s a strong indicator that we’re not effectively loving ourselves.
As social creatures, we absolutely need love from others, but if we’re not securely rooted in self-love, that’s going to be reflected in every relationship.
Guess what, though!
You are the love of your life.
You’re the one constant being, from the cradle to the grave, and your own love is the most potent healer of your tender heart.
Will you vow to love, honor, and cherish yourself?
Let’s take a closer look
Did you know that your subconscious mind will only allow love from others that matches the frequency of your blueprint for love?
If you were conditioned to see love as something to be earned, then you won’t believe that you’re inherently worthy of it and already perfectly lovable as you are.
This will translate into you being attracted to mates who withhold their love and allow you to reenact the dysfunctional story of love that has you contorting yourself to win external approval – all the while rejecting those who would give you their love freely.
Now, I’m not suggesting that everyone you’re unattracted to should be reconsidered, but I am saying that you’re not even aware of the potentially good matches out there who would be aligned with your authentic self – because you don’t believe she’s worthy of love.
And I am absolutely not here to shame you for that. What I am here to do is empower your compassion and help you create a new blueprint for love.
Fair warning: it will be uncomfortable af.
Doing things differently is always going to feel incredibly awkward, and your mind and body will ring alarm bells to keep you from changing things up. (Pro tip: this is why you’re stuck.)
You will have to create a new relationship with discomfort in order to learn what’s safe to lean into and what’s a true warning of actual danger.
My goal is to provide you with transformative insights and effective tools for navigating this process, so you can finally break out of your cycle of difficult relationships, and find fulfillment in love – at long last.
Who am I?
I’m Mariya Graestone, aka Love Coach Mariya, and I’m on a lifelong mission to Empower Compassion in as many souls as I can.
It would be my distinct honor to guide you to the love of your life – yourself
Others who’ve come before you
“I feel relief with a strong sense of knowing that I got me, and the universe and those meant to be there do, too.”
~ D’Onta P.
“One of my biggest gains has been a sense of greater control over myself and my situation.”
~ Krista R.
“I’m more confident in speaking my truth, and it all flows from there. I’m more relaxed and open; calm and centered. It radiates. It’s huge.”
~ Anna B.
Let Love In!
From Push & Pull to Peace of Mind, Unlocking Love is a self-paced course that will support you in:
- Building a strong foundation of self-love;
- Breaking the cycle of dysfunctional relationship dynamics; and
- Finally letting Love flow into your life.
With 15 subjects in the course, you are encouraged to study each one for 1-2 weeks at a time, and to refrain from delving into more than one per week. This means that you will have almost 4 months – minimum – of inner-work materials to foster your personal transformation.
Your investment: $650 $143
What’s included
> An in-depth video course covering 15 subjects – including Reparenting, Boundaries, and Embodiment – all designed to build on each other and fortify your internal foundation of LOVE.
> 15 journal prompts to guide your self-reflections on each subject.
> Lifetime access to the materials.
+ BONUS: Option to join a private online group for communal support on your journey.
How it works
After enrolling HERE, you will receive instant and full access to the course materials – for life. You will then work your way through the study subjects – ideally one week at a time – and journal your reflections as you progress.
If at any point, you would like one-on-one support from me, you can reach out to discuss options for purchasing individual coaching sessions, or additional offerings.
FAQ
Do you offer refunds?
I do not. If you’re on the fence, hop on a complimentary call with me, or take some time to feel into your truth and come back if you find this to be aligned for you.
Can we work one-on-one?
You can absolutely purchase individual coaching sessions to accompany this course. Just reach out and we can discuss add-on options.
Or you can explore my other offerings if you’re not feeling this one.
I’m not currently partnered. Will I still get the full value out of this?
You will indeed! This program is designed to support the development of a healthy foundation for everyone, in any (safe) situation (or situationship), and to enhance the connections in all of your relationships.
As a single person, it will also prime you for choosing your next partner in greater alignment with your values and goals, rather than your unconscious programming – when you’re ready :)
I’m already in a relationship and red flags are starting to show. Is this program still something that will help me?
If you are in real danger, I encourage you to get help getting to safety. Otherwise, this program will absolutely help you get clear on the best path for you, and support you in developing a healthy foundation. In fact, strengthening your self-love might actually resolve many of the issues in your current partnership.
And if it turns out to not be enough to make it work, you’ll be equipped to part ways with love and integrity, and to find your way to a more aligned match, when you’re ready.
I’ve already tried All The Things – how will this be any different?
Well, I honestly can’t make any guarantees about your outcomes (’cause those are ultimately on you), but since you’re here, I’m guessing that you’ve only been working on the surface of Doing, and you haven’t begun to focus yet on the BEING you’re Doing FROM.
There are so many “life hacks” and “quick fixes” out there, that we lose sight of where those types of solutions are appropriate and where they’re not. They are handy for learning how to improve upon what you’re already Doing, but they do not help you BECOME something entirely new.
Doing relationships differently will just rearrange the furniture in your life, but BECOMING a self-loving person who inherently co-creates safe, balanced, and supportive relationships, is a whole other level. This course is designed to help you level-up. If that’s what you’re here for, then you’re in the right place :)
Become Secure in Love
Healing, growing, and refining ourselves is a lifelong work-in-progress, and an ever-evolving journey. It is a practice and a lifestyle.
This course was created to nurture you in forming new and supportive habits, and to guide you deeper into your psyche, your heart, and your soul. It will help you shed new light on ancient wisdom and reveal previously unseen truths about yourself.
The process will lay the foundation for your Internally Rooted Security, so you can empower your compassion, deepen your connections, and finally be able to welcome the love you’ve been longing for.
Are you ready to let Love in?
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