A boat on a sea with storm and calm - From Push & Pull to Peace of Mind; Love Coaching for Women

From Push & Pull
to Peace of Mind

Love Coaching for Women

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About YOU

You are a brilliantly self-aware woman, with a big heart and a pattern of dissatisfying relationships.

Hot and cold, mixed signals, on again off again, passionately in love and passionately enraged.

Each partner lights a fire in you, but also leaves you feeling unfulfilled. If only they would step up, or chill out, or be more vulnerable, or be more stable…

You see the potential in them, and you feel such a depth of connection, maybe even an obligation to love them despite their difficulty.

Your friends question your choices – and might be judging your sanity. They try to tell you that you deserve better, but your heart is drawn to these partners (dare I say it?) like a moth to a flame.

It feels like you’re stuck on a merry-go-round of emotional turmoil, and you wonder if your friends are right. Perhaps you even ask yourself, “What’s wrong with me? Why do I keep ending up in these dysfunctional relationships?”

What if I told you that there’s a different lesson to be learned?

What if the only way out is through?

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Empower Your Compassion

Our patterns are our teachers, not our detours, for they point us to our deeper programs and conditioning, our wounds and our coping mechanisms.

Choosing things that turn out badly for us is actually just the subconscious recreating what’s familiar to us. It doesn’t make us broken, it makes us Human.

Loving the “wrong” people isn’t the problem, it’s just a reflection of our self-love, and condemning what love we do have is not the solution. Our love is our strength. All it needs is to be expanded, so it’s big enough for OURSELVES as well as others.

When we love ourselves fiercely, we can nurture our way through the discomfort of the unfamiliar, of a love that functions differently than what we were conditioned with.

Whether that looks like showing up differently and leaning into your current partnership, or consciously, compassionately, and nonreactively parting ways with them; mindfully dating and experimenting with different energetics than you’re used to, or spending some time uncoupled, in deep reflection and connection to yourself…

I’m here to tell you that you CAN break your patterns, and you don’t have to sacrifice your heart to do it.

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A Loving Guide for Your Journey

Breaking old patterns and learning new ways of interacting is not without difficulty. It’s much like navigating in uncharted waters.

In such circumstances, it’s not uncommon to hire a guide to show you the way. As it turns out, I know this route well because I carved it myself.

I’m Mariya Graestone and I offer love coaching for women who are struggling with a pattern of insecure push & pull relationship dynamics.

When you’re ready, I am here to lovingly guide you through the rough waters of rocky relationship towards enhanced inner security and enriched fulfillment in Love.

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Testimonials of Transformation

I learned some incredible lessons about myself and loving myself and choosing myself.

Kim S.

Mariya’s wisdom and guidance has helped me return to my core essence, grow, moult, and begin thriving.

Lisa S.

One of my biggest gains has been a sense of greater control over myself and my situation.

Krista R.
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Are You Ready?

Feeling fulfilled by love, rather than scared of how it might let you down…
Trusting yourself to not abandon YOURSELF…
No more doubt and confusion in Relationship… No more rollercoaster!

You CAN have it.
Reach out.
The first convo is on me.